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So yeah. Ryan's gone till Tuesday, and I'm grounded till Monday morning, and yeah...
some porn makes me embarrassed. I dont know why. It's whenever the girls are like, uberly vocal, or are just kinda insane with the motions. I dunno. I just randomly noticed that. And I dont get it when some guys start spaking the girl, or do that choke hold crap while they're having sex. I guess to each their own....sex, for me at least, is more than sex. It's a pleasure rush for sure, but it's something about love I think, and so I dont understand why in the world there would be anything even semi-painful involved. But that's jsut my take on it I guess..
And I'm pleased to say that I'm kinda...branching out a bit. Im still clumsily moving through some stuff...but yeah. Overall, I'm getting better. I feel better about sex than I did, say....two months ago.
There really was no point to this entry or anything.
But I did find some interesting myths online o.o;
Masturbating every day is a sign of sex addiction.
Given that over 90 per cent of men and 75 per cent of women masturbate, we'd be in a lot of trouble if this were a sign of sex addiction. To masturbate every day is excessive, but it's more a sign of frustration than addiction. People have different sex drives, and some people may need to relieve themselves everyday, although it's unlikely they would sustain that for any length of time. Teenagers tend to masturbate three to four times a week, whereas adults only manage a bit of self-loving once or twice a week.
If he pulls out I won't get pregnant. This belief is dangerous and sadly leads to thousands of unwanted pregnancies every year. The withdrawal method is the most risky form of contraception and particularly silly when there are so many safe and effective methods to choose between. These include: sterilisation; hormonal contraception (the combined and mini Pill and implants); IUD; diaphragm; condoms and spermicides. Except for sterilisation none of these methods are 100 per cent effective, but it?s better to be safe than sorry. We all forget that sperm are persistent little blighters. Did you know that if the guy pulls out and sperm is left on your upper thighs then it's still possible for you to get pregnant? They just wriggle on up there and go for their target. Remember too, that you should always be practising safe sex to protect yourself from infection. If in any doubt, always use a condom.
There were more, but well, Ryan just signed on and then immediately off. He made it to pittsburg, obviously, so enough with my worrying ^^;
it sucks....because without my phone, I cant tell him goodnight or I love him...blah. well, he knows it at least.
some porn makes me embarrassed. I dont know why. It's whenever the girls are like, uberly vocal, or are just kinda insane with the motions. I dunno. I just randomly noticed that. And I dont get it when some guys start spaking the girl, or do that choke hold crap while they're having sex. I guess to each their own....sex, for me at least, is more than sex. It's a pleasure rush for sure, but it's something about love I think, and so I dont understand why in the world there would be anything even semi-painful involved. But that's jsut my take on it I guess..
And I'm pleased to say that I'm kinda...branching out a bit. Im still clumsily moving through some stuff...but yeah. Overall, I'm getting better. I feel better about sex than I did, say....two months ago.
There really was no point to this entry or anything.
But I did find some interesting myths online o.o;
Masturbating every day is a sign of sex addiction.
Given that over 90 per cent of men and 75 per cent of women masturbate, we'd be in a lot of trouble if this were a sign of sex addiction. To masturbate every day is excessive, but it's more a sign of frustration than addiction. People have different sex drives, and some people may need to relieve themselves everyday, although it's unlikely they would sustain that for any length of time. Teenagers tend to masturbate three to four times a week, whereas adults only manage a bit of self-loving once or twice a week.
If he pulls out I won't get pregnant. This belief is dangerous and sadly leads to thousands of unwanted pregnancies every year. The withdrawal method is the most risky form of contraception and particularly silly when there are so many safe and effective methods to choose between. These include: sterilisation; hormonal contraception (the combined and mini Pill and implants); IUD; diaphragm; condoms and spermicides. Except for sterilisation none of these methods are 100 per cent effective, but it?s better to be safe than sorry. We all forget that sperm are persistent little blighters. Did you know that if the guy pulls out and sperm is left on your upper thighs then it's still possible for you to get pregnant? They just wriggle on up there and go for their target. Remember too, that you should always be practising safe sex to protect yourself from infection. If in any doubt, always use a condom.
There were more, but well, Ryan just signed on and then immediately off. He made it to pittsburg, obviously, so enough with my worrying ^^;
it sucks....because without my phone, I cant tell him goodnight or I love him...blah. well, he knows it at least.