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I made my entire journal public again because there are a lot of rumors that I'm hearing from people about things that I've said and that genuinely aren't true.
Anyone is welcome to go back as far as they'd like (though I believe that I only changed it to 'Friends Only' sometime last year, so it's not like there's much that was hidden) and peruse my journal entries at length.
If you have ANY sort of negative comments to make about me, my decisions, or the choices I've made in my life save your breath. I don't want to hear them. Continue to say things to your like minded friends and save me the hassle.
On that note, there seem to be a lot of circulating rumors that I'm badmouthing people I've had falling outs with, and that I'm doing things out of spite, and just things that don't interest me at all.
I have not, and will not, bad mouth anyone that I consider a friend of mine for the sake of 'proving' I'm over them or that it doesn't hurt me to have lost that friendship. I have a great deal more respect for people than that.
I did lose a friendship I valued a great deal last year and never once have I said anything about bad or malicious about Houkie. Any of the entries that I made after the point when we stopped talking have only lamented that loss and I will be the first to say that she is an extremely strong person and I admire her resilience given the great deal of things she had seen in her life. She is welcome to see any of the entries I have made since then as proof that not once did I slander her name or say anything about her as a person. I only wished her and Wacy the best in life and I continue to hope that she is happy.
As far as Jules goes, I'm still extremely raw and don't honestly know where to go from here about it. I hate that we fell out, especially since it was over (to my understanding, and this is from my perspective so it's going to come across as biased and may not be the facts as she sees them) me not getting permission / notifying her about changes in Salene's life. I was under the impression she wouldn't be able to return to the game as I know that she has a LOT on her shoulders with real life, so I did not think it pertinent to tell her about any potential romantic developments in Salene's life. I did make an entry directly after our last conversation that was spiteful because I was extremely hurt, but I'm human and initially lashing was all that I have done in a negative light about the situation.
I hate losing people I consider friends. I'm not a trusting individual by nature and am extremely guarded because I'm afraid of pain emotionally and physically. I don't cope well nine times out of ten, but I try my damnedest to not defile or vilify people and any one of my friends can tell you that I'm not malicious by nature. I guess I'm just hoping that people will stop portraying me as the villain in a situation that honestly doesn't have one. If two people don't consider each other at the same level they used to, that's unfortunately life. As much as I'd love things to go back to the way they were I don't hold my breath or keep my hopes up for it. It's been months and I have to accept things as they are.
This is hopefully the last that I'm going to hear about this because it's just so very draining. It's been months and I hope the entire roleplaying world will move on and just get over things - it makes it so much harder to just keep your head down and stay out of folks way when people continually bring it up.
Anyone is welcome to go back as far as they'd like (though I believe that I only changed it to 'Friends Only' sometime last year, so it's not like there's much that was hidden) and peruse my journal entries at length.
If you have ANY sort of negative comments to make about me, my decisions, or the choices I've made in my life save your breath. I don't want to hear them. Continue to say things to your like minded friends and save me the hassle.
On that note, there seem to be a lot of circulating rumors that I'm badmouthing people I've had falling outs with, and that I'm doing things out of spite, and just things that don't interest me at all.
I have not, and will not, bad mouth anyone that I consider a friend of mine for the sake of 'proving' I'm over them or that it doesn't hurt me to have lost that friendship. I have a great deal more respect for people than that.
I did lose a friendship I valued a great deal last year and never once have I said anything about bad or malicious about Houkie. Any of the entries that I made after the point when we stopped talking have only lamented that loss and I will be the first to say that she is an extremely strong person and I admire her resilience given the great deal of things she had seen in her life. She is welcome to see any of the entries I have made since then as proof that not once did I slander her name or say anything about her as a person. I only wished her and Wacy the best in life and I continue to hope that she is happy.
As far as Jules goes, I'm still extremely raw and don't honestly know where to go from here about it. I hate that we fell out, especially since it was over (to my understanding, and this is from my perspective so it's going to come across as biased and may not be the facts as she sees them) me not getting permission / notifying her about changes in Salene's life. I was under the impression she wouldn't be able to return to the game as I know that she has a LOT on her shoulders with real life, so I did not think it pertinent to tell her about any potential romantic developments in Salene's life. I did make an entry directly after our last conversation that was spiteful because I was extremely hurt, but I'm human and initially lashing was all that I have done in a negative light about the situation.
I hate losing people I consider friends. I'm not a trusting individual by nature and am extremely guarded because I'm afraid of pain emotionally and physically. I don't cope well nine times out of ten, but I try my damnedest to not defile or vilify people and any one of my friends can tell you that I'm not malicious by nature. I guess I'm just hoping that people will stop portraying me as the villain in a situation that honestly doesn't have one. If two people don't consider each other at the same level they used to, that's unfortunately life. As much as I'd love things to go back to the way they were I don't hold my breath or keep my hopes up for it. It's been months and I have to accept things as they are.
This is hopefully the last that I'm going to hear about this because it's just so very draining. It's been months and I hope the entire roleplaying world will move on and just get over things - it makes it so much harder to just keep your head down and stay out of folks way when people continually bring it up.